LGBT Person-centred counselling in South London and online
+44 7925 854483
Welcome
"Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen."
Brené Brown
Whether you are gay, bisexual or straight, welcome. I am here for you if you identify as queer or asexual, or are trans or gender non-conforming in any way. If you are non-binary or intersex or are in some way questioning and trying to understand issues around your sexuality or gender, I would like to provide you with a welcoming, safe and confidential space.
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I understand that coming to counselling for the first time can be daunting. It is impossible for me to predict the outcome of our work together, but I can promise a relationship where you will be in control, accepted and understood.
Person-centred counselling is a collaborative process which is led by you and supported by me. I will journey alongside you, without judgement. Person-centred counselling is not about labelling or diagnosing you, it is about me trying to understand your experience from your point of view. I will not make assumptions about you, and you will remain in the driving seat. I believe that by working together, we can help you to find fulfilment of your personal
potential.
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You will know when it’s the right time to come to counselling. Everyone’s circumstances are individual and – similar to coming out – usually coming to counselling is a matter of knowing, in yourself, when you are ready.
Issues that often come up include body image, self esteem and same-sex/queer relationship difficulties. You are welcome to bring issues relating to:
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Anxiety and depression
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Issues relating to chemsex or kink
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Identity confusion or conflict (for example, where your sexuality conflicts with religious upbringing or beliefs)
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Feeling you are never good enough
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Coming to terms with a breakup
Person-centred counselling can help you to make sense of issues such as:
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Sex and sexual health
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Hate crime
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Bereavement and coming to terms with a terminal diagnosis
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Bullying and harassment
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Internalised homophobia, including denial of your sexual orientation to yourself and others
I can offer you a safe space where you can explore feelings related to:
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Polyamory and open relationships
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Social media issues, including compulsive use of hook-up apps and pornography
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Searching for meaning and purpose in your life
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Abuse within relationships, including emotional abuse, gaslighting and other forms of manipulation